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Field Report: Sean and Alyssa Milano


posted by Donovan at 4:34 PM

I just saw this over at the Pickup 101 blog. Thought it was quite cool and worth the read up!

Out in SF with the other guys from Pickup 101 in San Francisco working on the VIP follow-up coaching program.

My challenge for the night: do as many difficult sets as possible, especially sets that already have guys in them. So off we go to a famously swanky little lounge in a famously swanky part of town. Kind of place where women bust out the little black dress with the total intent to get noticed and have guys buy them drinks. In other words, perfect.

I roll in and move immediately across the bar to start with my favorite move... locate girls at bar and ask them if I can get in to get a drink. See lone hottie sitting at bar with bag next to her. Start talking. Move bag. Sit down. Banter back and forth.

She's leaning in, eyes sparkling, laughing at every joke. Good times all around. She starts telling me about her boyfriend who manages this bar. I'm now thinking that is a dude I do NOT want to get on the bad side of... and how perfect if I can get in with her and the man on the scene.

Suddenly, another girl comes walking right up, hugs her, and then turns to look at me, saying "you're in my seat." Now, girl #1 is cute, but this girl is a sassier version of Alyssa Milano. Long dark hair, tiny body, great boobs, great smile. Tommy likey. I reply "it's our seat now, darling. I'm all about sharing." She smiles and walks right into me (I'm sitting on a barstool facing her and her friend with my legs apart) and says "OK, but I always get to go first."




Fast forward a bit... girl#1's boyfriend shows up. We give a pound, I tell him these girls are just wearing me out with all their flirting and I'm so glad he showed up to help. He says he has to keep working, and now it's on me to keep them busy.

Basically, this is Jake Ryan giving Farmer Ted the keys to the Rolls.

He moves on and I take the two by the hand to the back of the bar where they have little curtained-off rooms. We get back there, and instantly one out-of-his-tree Australian dude comes up with two drinks in hand for Alyssa, saying "I told you I'd get you a drink, here they are." I take them from them, and thank him, and tell her to tell him how sweet that is.

She's eye-coding me with a "why is this drunk still here look," but I just chat and occupy him and send him on his way, with my arm around Alyssa the whole time. We sit in the booth, me and her and her friend, when suddenly up pops another dude. Big bald guy. A good 74 inches, good-looking, loud, alpha Bruce Willis type.

But not alpha like me, my friend.

I pop right up and say "What's up, man, I'm Sean. God damn are these girls trouble. I'm so glad you're here to help." He introduces himself and gives girls a big hug... then asks what are you drinking? I'm buying.

Alyssa turns to me and asks what do you want? I say that's so sweet of you to ask to buy me something, but he offered first. I tell Bruce I'll have a Bud. Alyssa busts me saying that's so gay, and only gay guys drink Bud. I say damn straight, just the gayest for me, then spank her on the ass. Her friend busts up laughing.

When Bruce returns with drinks, we all sit, and then I pull Alyssa up to stand with me next to the spot. We lean against the wall and talk. Low, quiet, intense.

I tell her why I moved here, how after losing the girl that I thought was the one I knew I needed to go live life as fully as I can. She tells me about her family. We don't talk much, or that deep, but it feels like more.

I keep her next to me. Tell her she has amazing lips, and that our first kiss will be a great one. She says "you are so confident..." and smiles.

Ask her her favorite body part, and she says her ass is world-class. I spin her around to check, feel, and confirm, and remind her "it's nice, but not quite as nice as mine." She smiles, I lean in and sniff her neck, whispering how she smells delicious, and nibbling her neck.

I feel her body go limp against mine.

I stay there for weeks.

Stand up. No kiss. Too public. Little more talk, and suddenly her friend pops up.

"We need girl talk."

I fumble a bit, snapped out of moment. "Uh, OK. You guys have your girl talk. Seriously, I need to go hang with my friends, you monopolized all my time."

I go back to front of bar and chat up everyone I can find. Practicing dude blowouts by walking up to mixed sets and saying to him "dude, i know you know this, but this girl is trouble." Then turn to girl and say "yeah you... you were supposed to watch out for me tonight, and then those two midget strippers were all over me, and where were you?" Great fun. Always gets me in with the girl and confuses hell out of guys. So I circulate and check back on Alyssa.

Gone. Look around back. Nope. Check front. Nothing.


I am so pissed at myself. Rapport was going so well I totally forgot logistics, her friend, other guys, and general chaos of hopping bar in general.

Always get some close early just in case. Damnit. I acted all casual and now she's gone, and that real, solid, sexual connection just poof! up in smoke.

So I game a little more, but I'm bummed. Just a stupid !#@* on my part.

So I walk outside to lean against wall and smoke pensively. Chat with some other dudes out there and tell them the story... the one that got away.

Suddenly a flash in front of me... it's Alyssa, being led out by Bruce Willis.

Here's the sweet part.

He sees me and deftly moves her to his outside so he's in-between me and her. Nice footwork for a big dude.

Now she sees me` and waves her arm behind his back. There's something in her hand. I reach out without looking and take it.

She no-look passed me her card! Dude had no idea.

So what happened?

Call her card on the Monday following (work card). Chat her up at work. Fun, sexy banter. She's fun. Can't connect schedules for two weeks. Finally set up a date.

She drives across Bay to meet at my house. She arrives. !#@* dolled up. Just a lovely, lovely girl. I pick her up in a hug and tell her she smells great.

We walk inside so I can get by jacket. She pets my cute dogs. Says hi to rooommate. We walk out along flower-lined street to local pub to watch hockey (she loves the Sharks). I stop at one point and pin her against the wall and sniff her hair... then pull back and just look.

She can't take it. Reaches up to pull me in to kiss. I stop her... wait one second, then pull her back for a kiss.

Yep. Nothing better than a good-night kiss at the start of the date.

The rest?

Watch game. Drink beers. Chat with all my friends in bar. All my friends and bartenders hit on her and call her gorgeous. We walk home. I pull her into my room to show her something. Cue up end scene from Scrooged where Bill Murray is explaining the meaning of Christmas. Turn lights off, close door tight. No questions, no qualms. Behind closed doors. A gentleman never tells.

She is a lovely girl. Definite keeper material.

Lessons Learned:

  1. Always be on point with everyone.
  2. Seduce the room and the ones you really want will just end up with you.
  3. Keep your head up and keep at it, because when it's working, nothing can stop it.
  4. And use every other guy as just another ally to make it clear that you, and only you, are the best man for her.

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posted by Donovan at 4:34 PM Dating Advice for Men


Anonymous Anonymous said...

yep that pretty much sums it up for me
its good to know that im not alone, but im working on it and with sites like this I at least stand some kind of chance


12:39 AM, September 01, 2006  

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How To Be Interesting To Women (Video)


posted by Donovan at 12:38 PM

This is an interesting video, which some of the newer guys might not have seen.

It's Mystery (Eric) talking about how we can become an interesting person. This philosophy really the foundation every type of "method" or "pickup". It's fundamental and something you should atleast know at some level.

Learn the Mystery Method's outline here.


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Donovan's Field Reports

posted by Donovan at 10:19 AM

Ok guys, I apologize, this blog has been rather commercialized of late. Although, this really did start out as a way for me to document the different pickup guru's advice, so I feel obligated to plug them when I post their thoughts and original ideas.

Ok, I have a confession to make. I just bought Season 2 of Entourage. What an awesome, well-written and great experience that is to watch. It's quite the distraction from posting. So I'll finish watching it, and get back to it!

Oh guys... Ive just completed a new "Seduction Master's Interview" that I'll be posting soon, and I'm in the works with a famous Double Your Dating seminar expert, and also "The Greatest Pickup Artist" in the world...

Anyways, here are some of my previous experiences that I have posted about!

Online Dating With Some of the Pitfalls!
Along Came a Model
Being Process Not Outcome Orientated
Don't Give Women Rope
Understanding Variation and Scarcity With Dating
Don't Let Your Stream Run Dry

Feel the love...


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Great Conversation Topics For Dates


posted by Donovan at 10:51 AM

Great Conversation Topics For Dates
This was definitely something I liked this weekend from our mate David D.



In one of the newsletters I received a couple weeks ago you gave the advice to someone to learn 'what topics fascinate women.' I found this newsletter specifically interesting because ive found myself in this same situation were when im on a date things get quiet and I cant find anything to say. I know you have already recommended a good book on comedy, "comedy writing secrets," but what is a good book explaining how to tell stories? And, what are some topics that fascinate women? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

M.G. Gainesville, FL.


This is a great question.

There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:

1. The HOW.

2. The WHAT.

"THE HOW..."

Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.

It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested in... right?

Well... partially.

It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHT WAY.

In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.

The HOW of conversation includes (but, is not limited to):

- Your body language

- Eye contact

- The Cocky & Funny style of communicating

- Flirting

- Sending mixed messages

- Directing the conversation

- Dealing with common questions and topics

...and many other things.

My point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.


With that said, there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.

But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute.

What topics do women PAY to hear about?

Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion channel...

If you think about it, the answer to this question is rather obvious.

For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:

- Drama

- Conflict

- Romance

- Famous people and their lives

So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics.

Here are a few ideas:

1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.

Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid, then psycho-analyze them.

Actors, rock stars and famous sports figures just LOVE to do crazy things... cheat on their spouses... and then say "I didn't do it".

These situations are BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed, critical, funny, sarcastic

2. Find an interesting looking group of people and guess what's going on.

Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on their first date.

Then, start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.

Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it.

NOTE: One of the best ways to do this is to discuss the BODY LANGUAGE of the people around
you... and comment on what it means.

3. Make fun of someone famous.

Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ben Affleck can only date women named

All you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get all kinds of great stuff to make fun of.

It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like you're all that.

4. Talk about other people's love lives.

Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance, then
volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what's going on.

Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained weight, then after
you've told the story, make up a random theory about how women who gain weight are actually

But, make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.

...I think you "feel me".

The point here is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and drawn to certain topics... so USE

The REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking!

You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes on... as long as you know what
else to do as you talk.

Oh, by the way...

Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Wars
and your secret love: wrestling.

NEVER talk about topics that might really freak a woman out, or topics that make you look like the biggest loser alive, especially in the beginning.

You'll create BAD VIBES that will make any attraction that you've created INSTANTLY

Others to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it's been since you've been on a date, asking if she likes you or if you're her "type"... and any other WUSS-BAG topic that makes you look insecure and needy.

Remember, the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional ATTRACTION between you and her.

If you don't know how to do this, then NOTHING you do is going to help you very much.

If you DO know how and why women feel ATTRACTION for men, then almost ANYTHING you do or talk about can amplify it.

If you'd like to get the basics of how ATTRACTION works, plus a good set of tools to use
for meeting and dating women, then go download my eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. Download it here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh god this website has turned completely into a a series of advertisements for all of your books and seminars. What ever happened to actual ARTICLES without any plug like we used to see on (Don't worry, that website hasn't had any real recent articles either). Of course you don't mind keeping up this blog, b/c it attracts more potential confused men to buy your products. Perhaps the community really has gone quite a bit downhill since the over-publicization of "game" beginning when Style came out with his book and went on all those TV shows. And you all thought you were helping create a positive image for yourselves...instead you've degraded to the same level as a cheesy car salesman

9:14 PM, August 07, 2006  
Blogger Donovan said...

Perhaps you should start putting this material into practice. Although, David D has been around alot longer than the publicization of the "game".

They aren't MY books and seminars. If you don't like the plugs, just don't click on them. Quite simple.

9:19 PM, August 07, 2006  

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