10.12.2006posted by Donovan at 11:43 AM
Over this past year I've been posting about being successful with women. Guy's come seeking alot of different things: girlfriends, one-night stands, multiple partners, and spouses. To each their own, and I find it inspiring when men take the initative and take small (and major) steps to improve their lives.
The truly brilliant thing is when you start becoming better with women, you start to lead a happier more fulfilling life. You actually improve all other areas of your life.
Sounds strange, but by fixing your problems with dating, you ultimately help your relations with all people around you. Which inturn helps you have more confidence to start a new job, mend old relationships with family, or who knows what.
Isn't that what it's about?
Improving your life, and controlling your lifestyle.
Theres a slight problem though...
Sometimes the solutions are right there but we don't ACT.
I discovered something recently, that procrasintation is DIRECTLY related to DEPRESSION and INACTIVITY.
What this means is, if you're feeling down, it's because you aren't evolving and progressing into who you're suppose to be!
This is massive problem with men. I think this is the BIGGEST problem with men.
When a man acts with purpose, doors open for him.
This is true with finances, careers, family, addictions, and most importantly (for us) WOMEN.
How many times have you been invited to go out with someone, and you've said in your mind...
"It's gonna be alot of fun, but I can't be BOTHERED," then your mind starts making up excuses for you not to hangout. Like, "Nothing ever happens there anyway," or "There's no hot girls there", or my personal favorite, "All the girls are shallow and whores!"
The important point is that your mind makes excuses for your inactive behavior, which inturn makes you LESS motivated to make things happen.
Like I said before in other words, INACTION is the key to MISERY.
So what can you do?
Well, identify your problem.
Are you not getting dates? Are you feeling depressed? Are you not getting the type of women you want? Do you wish you could have a lifestyle more like your dreams? Do you feel your destined to be great, but suffer from lack of action?
It's time to get your life handled.
Your hear on the internet, searching for your problem: wanting to get better with women.
So what can you do?
You can take action!
You need a foundation.
I don't care how much success with women you've had. You need some basis and understanding of how women tick, what makes them tick, and how you can trigger the tick.
I've been using Double Your Dating techniques (with other things) for a while now, and I can honestly say, it's helped me gain a much stronger perspective with women and dating. It's defintely the cheapest, and most directed start to your future dating lifestyle.
Alot of people think Double Your Dating is the definitive guide to dating. Maybe, maybe not.
What I do know is that the principles in it, GOVERN all the other dating guru's advice (directly or indirectly).
If you're starting out, and haven't made this investment in your life, you need to.
It's a cheap price to gain more confidence, direction, purpose, and social skills.
You'd be suprised by the emails (and photos) that I get from guys. Before and afters.
I'm shocked, and that's why I love running this blog. It helps guys. It helps them take control.
That's why I give you advice. I've been there (with many others), and there is hope. You just need to take ACTION.
If you're not ready to purchase Double Your Dating, why not just signup for his free newsletter? (Which is filled to the brim with insider dating secrets, pickup lines, techniques, and theories)
You know how you can't tell someone unless you've been there...
Check it out here
Remember: TAKE ACTION, and DO.
Till next time,
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posted by Donovan at 11:43 AM Dating Advice for Men