BigSend On Deep Inner Beliefs

BigSend (link at the bottom under Blogs), has written a good post on how he's trying to make himself more attractive by getting his inner self handled better. You can check it out on his blog here.

Jealous Girlfriend Opener

I thought I would explain what the famous "Jealous Girlfriend Opener" is, and how it was created.

Neil Strauss aka Style created this opener. He wanted something to engage. To quote Mystery, the two things women love the most in this world is relationships and the unknown. David Deangelo has said that whenever you can bring up relationships in a fun and interesting way its always entertaining and engaging.

So... (This is without grounding and time constraints)


YOU: My friend is dating this new girl, and he still hangs out with his ex. His new girlfriend wants him to end it, becuase its holding on to the past. How do you feel about that?
HER: (Gives response)
YOU: Well, its a two part question. He actually has a draw of photos and letters that he has collected throughout his life, and some of those photos are with her, and some of the letters are from their relationship together. She wants him to not only get rid of them, but burn them. Do you think shes justified in saying that?
HER: (Gives response)


That's the gist of the opener, Style has said that this usually keeps them going for ages. If the group contradicts eachother then the game is on!

Enjoy!
Donovan