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Alright here's the deal ladies I mean gentlemen; Was that a neg? I am a man, and by the looks of the only one on the internet. Ha. So, if you are interested in picking up a woman, first decide if it's to sleep with her or marry her. I only deal with trying to marry a woman because seducing is so fucking easy. The key here is to be so totally self-conscious that you, in essence, are disclosing everything about yourself. But this only makes sense if the other person is actually listening, most times they are not. I suppose now that I look at the comment moderation, this comment might not even see the light of day, so be it. The key to understanding a woman is that they are based solely on anxiety. That's it, nothing more; don't get me wrong, that's a good thing. Long story short, if you take that away, they feel safe, and might fall in love with you. The contradiction lies in that they also love this anxiety so if you take it all away they feel trapped. Female seducers love the anxiety that tastes bitter-sweet, it makes them feel alive, mostly because they are otherwise dead inside. So to invoke this, simply realize that they think too. They know everything you are trying to do before you even get to it. Why else did you come up to them? What most women crave, to make their life meaningful to them, is a chance encounter, an unexpected happening that works out. That divine force that makes them think life sucks and that they are going to die at such a young age is reversed into a god of blessing. You. The key is not to force the issue at all, of course to dodge around it will get you no where. Actually listen to what they are saying. Each bit from the word to the tone of their voice is revealing. First every beautiful girl knows they are beautiful, how could they not? You schmucks keep telling them. So what to do ... do nothing. Keep still, be preoccupied, and most importantly clever. React instantly to anything you would find offensive. A tempered look of disgust is all that is needed. Then look away. Laugh earnestly at their jokes, which are only so often funny, and suspicious side glances will also instill curiosity. They are having a dialog in their mind about what's going on, based on everything that has happened to them from each joy to every repressed thought, and if you break that, they become anxious. Perhaps I am not making sense to you, that is always the case. Alas, girls have asked me to marry them all from a stare. I look like anthony keatis or dave grohl for god's sake, at least that's what women tell me. It's true know that you might not be tall enough, skinny enough, jacked enough, but it doesn't matter. A woman just looking to get laid is all she will get. Besides she is still concerned about the first guy that broke her heart, whether it looks like it or not. Now that I think about it, it is a pathetic game. I'm better left ignored.
New to the community and several weeks into DYD material. It's done wonders for self confidence and inner game, but I'm beginning to realize that there is no teacher like experience. Struck up a conversation the other day and pulled off a 3-minute number close you could have wrapped a bow around. Mind you the girl is maybe a cute 7, everything seems to be going ok after 1 hour of coffee and a walk. I'll see her again for tea this week, but something has struck me as I've replayed things in my mind.Does DYD work with girls who arent a 9 or 10? Many of the techniques DD talks about are aimed at being challenging and different from most guys who approach attractive women. Given that a 6 or 7 may not be approached by men on a continuous basis, she may not have the same psychological makeup or a 9 or a 10 (in the sense that she inherently filters the men that approach her). Does C+F, acting indifferent, and other techniques that DYD preaches work on more average women?
Very interesting post gents
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