It's Friday, Do You Know Where Your Women Are?

To quote the actor Chris Tucker - "It's Friday, you ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do!"

Well, maybe you do have a job and things to do, but are you doing the things you WANT to do?

Namely: Are you going out tonight to meet some women?

Friday night is probably the BEST night of the week to meet women.

Think about it:

It's been a long, hard week. People are getting off work. They don't have anything to do the next day. They can sleep in as late as they want. They're looking to unwind and release some stress. In other words...

They're out looking to have fun!

And what does having fun entail? Well, for most women, having fun on a Friday night means - MEETING A MAN!

That's right. We go out to meet women. They go out to meet us!

But the question you gotta ask yourself is: Are they gonna meet YOU?

This is important, Attraction. This can mean the difference between getting laid and quietly sobbing in the shower.

So how are these women going to meet you?

Well, that's entirely up to you. I can give you some suggestions that will help you out, but honestly, it's up to you to act and make it happen.

The first thing you need to do to make sure women are going to meet you tonight is...

Are you ready?

GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!

That's step number one. You GOTTA get out and go to where the women are. This means going out with friends, or, if they're not around to hang out, go out by yourself!

Regardless of how you do it, if you DON'T go out, you have 0% chance of meeting women. (I'm talking real women who could go home with you TONIGHT! Not internet women).

The second step is **go to where the women are!**

This is important. Bars and clubs are always a good bet to find women. But if that's not your scene, you have other options available to you.

1. Happy hour.
--Yes, I know, this is a bar thing. But, happy hour usually occurs BEFORE things get too hectic, so if you're older, this may be a good alternative to fighting off all those youngsters out there. Most women go to happy hour after work, and then go home and change for a night out on the town. This is a GREAT opportunity for you to set up a date for LATER THAT NIGHT.

2. Bookstores & Coffee Shops
--If you have a little bit more of a laid back lifestyle,bookstores and coffee shops are a good place to check out on a Friday night. If you can find a coffee shop that's open late, all the better! Typically, the women here are quieter, book-worm wallflower types. So it may be harder to initially engage them, but it'll be easier to wrangle them into a conversation.

3. Hotel Lobbies & Bars
--No, I'm not talking about the lobby of your local "Day's Inn." I'm talking about the NICE hotels in your area. You know, the 4 & 5 star kind with valet parking and an extremely nice bar area. These can be great places to meet women, especially considering a lot of "hotel hotties" are from out of town and looking for some adventure. This scene is also more laid back and less intense than your typical bar and club.

Okay, so now that we've covered step 1 & 2, it's time to go to the final step:

MEET WOMEN.

Let's face it, even though women's lib is going strong, women STILL don't typically approach guys. They wait for YOU to approach THEM.

So that begs the question: How do you approach them?

In my book, "The Art of Approaching," I go into this subject in detail. Inside my book, you'll find:

--Specific stories guaranteed to start a conversation with any woman you meet.
--Funny one-liners to get her laugh right away!
--Tactics to easily get 10-12 numbers a night.
--A step-by-step guide that teaches you how to overcome any fear or nervousness you may have when it comes to meeting women!
--Much, much more...

At the very least, walk up to these women and say to them "Hi, I'm [Your Name Here]." But if you really want to SUPERCHARGE your ability to meet the kind of beautiful, interesting women you've always wanted, be sure to check out my book. You can order it now by clicking the link below:

http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/artofapproaching

Wishing you success with women,

Joseph Matthews

Thankyou Attraction Chronicles Readers!

To everyone that visits this blog: you guys are legends. You're always so willing to express your feelings on a matter that isn't always easy to share with other men about. I applaud you for searching this information out, and trying to improve your lives with it.

I get alot of emails from guys looking for advice on what material I've found most successful. I'd have to say, Art of Approaching and Double Your Dating. I mean when push comes to shove: the best of the net.

I don't want to rave to much, but they really helped my life. I'm so much happier, confident, and they really helped me get my life going in the direction I wanted.

So check them out when you have time. And thankyou for you're visits and emails.

Keep posting comments, and I'll keep stuff rolling.

Donovan

Don't give women rope...

Well after 1 month of solid and exclusive dating this one girl, she has given me the "I like you alot, but I don't want to commit right now. I don't want to decide differently six months down the line and have wasted your time." Yeah.... ok.

I consider the point of sarging, making out, etc, is to have a meaningful relationship with someone, not just hooking up. That is what brings you the most happiness, a great long-term relationship in which you can truly develop yourselves toward each other.

We were doing great, I think the problem was: I started acting to a little clingy. I believe this is an issue that plagues a lot of us men in our relationships. Men are honorable. We like to be honest, and we are usually nice. But women can take this the wrong way and start acting scared. So, take things easy, and non-commital for the first 3 months or so. They are words of wisdom for today.

To my clincher:

Give women enough rope, and they WILL choke you.

Nevertheless, I like them. :)

But I'm back out in the singles world again! Yay, I'll keep posting my field reports.

Top 10 Signs You're a Terrible Kisser

You both gaze into each others eyes... the sexual chemistry is electric and it infuses passion into both your bodies. You lean in and kiss her with everything you have. This is a woman you care alot about - you want to impress her.

You go back the day after and she's alittle hesitant. What happened?

You might not be a good a kisser as you once thought.

Here are ten signs that she might be giving off, which might indicate YOU need lessons in kissing.

10. She french kissed once, but never again
She slipped her tongue on you, but didn't ever again. It could be that you're much to eager with the tongue, remember the principle from Double Your Dating? Two steps forward, one step back.

9. Makes excuses when you go to kisser her
She says, "I have to get up early" or "I need to floss my cat". You might need to reevaluate this relationship, you might have ruined it. If she's not making out with you intensely periodically, then you're a bad kisser.

8. She's tired when you want to kiss her
If she's constantly yawning when you try and lay the smack down, then you need some improvement.

7. She wants to get busy with other parts of your body
This isn't that bad. But you're still a bad kisser, try and improve it, so you can complete the intimacy.

6. She never starts kissing you
If she doesn't initate, then you did something wrong. No girl no matter how shy, wont want to make out with her lover.

5. She doesn't give you compliments
If she doesn't say something like, "you're a great kisser", or "I've never felt like kissing this much" chances are you're horrible at lip-locking

4. She suddenly springs up "Let's be friends" after the first kiss
You need immediate attention. Download the Double Your Dating e-book

3. She pops breath mints
If she's popping breath mints, it could be a good sign for kissing. She might be self-consioscous about her breath, or it might be yours. Always come prepared and pop them.

2. If her lips are the signs of Jolies!
Try chewing on them less, and let her lips heal so she doesn't get some weird disease through an open wound with you.

1. She's cheating on you
You need alot of help refer to step 4. Then bitch slap her for being a whore. j/k

"Gave a girl my number" Opener

I was visiting the forums of sosuave.net, and I noticed a post by my friend BG, he runs a similar blog to me about attraction, seducing and dating. Visit his site here.

His post was awesome, it gives a great example of an excellent opener.

'Gave a girl my number' opener:

"Okay, so after last night's rampage I decided that I'll use the opener I thought of as a routine more often."Hey guys, can I have a moment, I need a female opinion on something.." (never wait for approval/validation, this is not a question, you just say it to catch their attention and to make sure they're listening)"I gave a girl my number, but I kind of regret it. What should I do when she calls?"If they want to help you and show you what girl has your number, tell them that it was in another bar, earlier that day/evening (unless you really gave your number to someone and want to get it back, like me last night). Girls get into this, man, because girls often are in the situation where they'll just give a guy their number (or a fake one) just to **** him off.

Nice BG, keep it coming.

How To 'Read' A Woman's Words And Body Language

WHAT WOMEN "REALLY MEAN"...

I hope you're sitting down... because what I'm about to share with you will change how you view women and dating. I'm about to take you "behind the scenes" in the female mind.

I'm going to give you a perspective that most men never see or realize.

Unfortunately for most guys, not seeing things the way I'm about to share with you, keeps them trapped in their own little world of failure. If you pay careful attention to the things I'm about to reveal to you, you'll definitely have more success with women.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WORDS AND THE REAL
WORLD...

Have you ever heard a woman say something like:

• "I want a guy who is sensitive."
• "I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings."
• "I want a guy who's a good communicator."
• "I want a guy who is strong."
• "I want a guy who is sexy."
• ...?

Of course you have. Women say this stuff all the time.

One of my favorites is:

"I want a REAL MAN."

I love that one.

In the past, when I'd hear women say, "I want a REAL MAN", I had NO IDEA what the hell they were talking about. It almost didn't make sense.

But keep in mind, even though these things don't always make sense to us guys, they make PERFECT sense to women.

Here's the problem...

When a woman says one of these things, she actually MEANS something that is different from
what a guy would mean if he said the same words.

Let me explain.

If a guy says "I'm going to stay home and relax today", he probably means that he's going to stay home, watch some sports, drink a beer, look at pictures of women on the internet, and order a pizza.

If a WOMAN says that she's going to stay home and relax, she's probably NOT going to watch some sports, drink a beer, look at pictures of women on the internet, and order a pizza.

IMPORTANT NOTICE: If you are reading this right now and you are a woman who watches sports, drinks beer, looks at pictures of the women on the internet, and orders pizza to relax, then contact me immediately at the email address below. And send pictures.

Back to what I was saying...

Women are DIFFERENT from men. And the words they use often don't mean what they SOUND like they mean. So, the FIRST thing that you have to get through your head is that just because a woman SAYS something to you, doesn't mean that it means what you THINK it means.

Catch my meaning?

THE BIG SECRET SHE ISN'T TELLING YOU

There's a little secret that women never happen to mention when they're describing what they want in a man.

Unfortunately, for all of us good guys who are trying to be what women want... and hoping that if we try hard enough to please women that they'll like us... this little secret is causing us a LOT of trouble.

The SECRET is that women ONLY want the things that they're asking for from a guy who already has about 100 other qualities that they never mention.

In other words, if a woman says, "I want a man who is a good communicator", what she REALLY means is:

"I want a guy who already has his life together, is interesting, unpredictable, dominant, funny,
healthy, charismatic, confident, and loyal... who is ALSO a good communicator."

The REALITY is that when a woman says one of these "I want a guy who" statements, she actually has an IDEAL guy in mind, who ALSO happens to be a good communicator.

She's NOT imagining Homer Simpson sitting on his couch reading a book on communication.

The reality of this situation is that what women REALLY want is a man who makes them feel the emotional and physical response that I like to call ATTRACTION. They want a man who makes them FEEL IT.

But, most women either can't describe the things that actually make her feel ATTRACTION, or they don't WANT to have to describe them, because they want a man who already IS those things... without having to learn them.

Think about it.

If you were hiring a bodyguard, would you want one that said, "Yeah, I can be a bodyguard. Just
give me some time to learn..." or would you want one that already KNEW how to kick ass anytime, anywhere without having to learn?

Duh.

Well, the same goes with women. They don't WANT a guy that they have to train. If you don't already have the UNIVERSAL FOUNDATION of what appeals to women, then no amount of changing and improving things, like your communication and sensitivity, is going to help you.

WHAT IS A REAL MAN?

Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea of a "Real Man". You hear both women and men using the term.

But what does it actually MEAN? And is it important?

Well, after thinking about this particular topic for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that it is a VERY important topic.

At this point, I believe that a REAL MAN is this "ideal" that women imagine when they're saying "I want a guy who is sensitive". They're thinking of the REAL MAN, and then they're imagining him ALSO being sensitive. There are a lot of aspects to this REAL MAN.

Here are a few that are important:

-Status
-Lack of Insecurities
-Standards
-Experience
-Humor
-Unpredictability
-Leadership
-A Challenge

...and the list goes on.

It's actually not easy to describe a REAL MAN in a few sentences... but I'll tell you what... a woman can recognize one INSTANTLY.

THE MISTAKE MEN MAKE

Now, a common mistake that men make is taking something that a woman SAYS that she wants, and doing it TOO MUCH, thinking that if "A little bit is good, then more must be better".

For instance, a woman SAYS that she likes guys who are "thoughtful". So you go out and buy her a bunch of gifts, give her cute cards every time you see her, and call her all the time to tell her that you miss her.

What happens?

She leaves you for her jerk ex-boyfriend.

Huh?

This would be kind of like a woman saying, "My favorite food is chocolate" and then you thinking it would be good to feed her chocolate for every meal just because it's her favorite... or adding chocolate to every single dish you make for her from now on... and forgetting that 97% of what she eats still needs to be OTHER FOODS.

Let me land the plane for you.

Women don't MEAN what you THINK they mean when they talk about what they want in a man.

And if you take the things women say too literally, you're going to wind up shooting yourself in the foot.

WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN...

So let me "decode" what women "really" mean when they say common things. Consider this your own personal "female language translator". Refer to it often.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...

"I want a guy who is sensitive."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...

"I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in life, who has goals and objectives... who has passion for things. If we're out together, he always keeps me on my toes, and I'm always wondering what's going to happen next. He's challenging, interesting, and funny. I would really like it if he was also sensitive enough to know when I need a hug, or to be held, or when I want him to make love to me."

Does this make sense?

Again, she's not imagining a picture of a boring, predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt feelings because he's so "sensitive". Big difference.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...

"I want a guy who is in touch with his feelings."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...

"I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who doesn't get upset about petty things... a guy who can deal with the fact that I freak out emotionally sometimes... and who knows how to be cool when things are tough. But I also want him to be in touch with his feelings so that:

1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and
2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a passionate rush... he'll grab me and make love to me like a beast!"

What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a meek, afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do you like me? Because I sure like you".

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS:

"I want a guy who's a good communicator."

WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...

"I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time, because he knows how to let me know what's on his mind without using words. I want the kind of guy that can touch me in a certain way and I feel tingles all over my body. And I want the kind of guy that can say things in a way that I understand... not crudely and man-like."

WHAT ABOUT "SEXY"?

You'll often hear women saying that they what a "Sexy Man".

Now, I USED to think that they meant that they wanted a PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE man when they said this.

Sometimes this is exactly what they mean when they use the term "sexy". But I've found that,
most of the time, women mean something TOTALLY different when they use the term "sexy". You see, a woman generally bases more of her life around what she FEELS than a man does.

And the concept of "sexy" is usually used to describe the way a man makes a woman FEEL than it is used to describe how HE LOOKS. Think about women's romance novels for a moment. Women's romance novels account for about a fifth of ALL BOOKS SOLD.

What do these books contain? WORDS. Words that DESCRIBE things. Descriptions that make women FEEL things.

My point: If you want to learn how to be a "sexy man", then the way you LOOK isn't the most
IMPORTANT thing. I'll tell you something -

Learning the secrets of being a "sexy man" can be a very rewarding experience.

A lot of guys out there, including me, know EXACTLY what it's like to be either on a date
with, or in a relationship with a woman who has NO INTENTION of being with you "physically".

In other words, she's just not feeling that powerful "sexual" ATTRACTION for you. And you don't know how to MAKE her feel it. Well, let me tell you...

Just like all the other things that a woman "says" that she wants in a man... that most men don't ever "get", being SEXY is one of the BIG ONES.

If you understand the secrets of being SEXY, you will notice that women start to behave VERY differently around you.

For more specific techniques and step-by-step systems for becoming all of these things that I've mentioned above, INCLUDING "sexy", then I recommend that you check out my online eBook.

The e-book "Double Your Dating" comes with three no-cost bonus reports. One of these reports is called "Sex Secrets", and it teaches you how to take things from one step to the next when it comes to "getting physical" with a woman. If you do these things, you will INSTANTLY make a woman realize and remember that you are a SEXY man. I absolutely guarantee it.

You can read some great samples, and download it here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingMethod.com/e/10000/eBook/

To your future,

David D.

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