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Don't Despair:The Change Is Happening


posted by Donovan at 8:18 AM

Sometimes we put a lot of burden on ourselves in this community. Everything is our fault with women, and we have the power to change our destiny. All true statements.

I've noticed, for myself, it can be overwhelming at times when it seems you've been doing all you can do.

Don't despair. Change is happening, and you're the one making a better life for yourself. Few people care about your immediate success but you... and your future girlfriends. They want a quality man that they can share those special moments in life with.

Become the man you would want to be with if you were a woman.

So don't get down on yourself for not picking up that 10 at the club last night. Work on it. Play with it. Don't take yourself so seriously, and have FUN.

It's all about experiences.



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Blogger chef decibel said...

Thanks for saying that because it couldn't have come at a more convenient time. I have been going through what seems like an eternal lapse in progress. But now suddenly things are on the upside. Great site! Keep it up!

4:48 PM, December 23, 2006  
Blogger Ace said...

Same Here!!! Man I'm getting better than I could have ever imagined (With Tons Of Room To Improve) but sometimes I actually do feel kinda stressed about the massive changes going on in my life and especially in my head. The learning curve in this society is huge and moves quite quickly.

Peace guys!!!

And Thank You :)


7:18 PM, December 23, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

can you tell us more about "wal-mart game." like how do you pick up women who work at wal-mart?

btw, i'm just using wal-mart as a generic example of a store. i wouldn't pick up women at wal-mart. swear to god. i have standards too...

but Target definitely.

11:54 AM, December 24, 2006  
Blogger chef decibel said...

Anonymous, why are you validating yourself by stating that you wouldn't run game in wal-mart? Who cares what everybody else thinks. It seems like you're missing the big picture here. For me, this is a lifestyle not a part-time hobby. I don't care where I am. There are no limitations.

12:15 PM, December 24, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

okay, it's true. i like to pick up toothless women in wal-mart! i admit it! and i'm proud of it too!

10:03 PM, December 26, 2006  
Blogger mybirthdaypony said...

seriously, perfect time for this post. THANK YOU for the inspiring words. i got rejected by this 9 last saturday and i got pretty down on myself and on the method i was learning. im feeling better now, thank you.

1:35 AM, December 27, 2006  
Blogger He Said She Said Love... said...

Good stuff. Love your blog. Drop by and say hi sometime.

9:51 PM, December 27, 2006  
Blogger Soundwave said...

I second the motion on the guys from theApproach.. Dimitri and Woodhaven...

- S

2:01 PM, January 04, 2007  

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Mystery Method Relationship Seminar Redux


posted by Donovan at 9:16 AM

Got a email from Savoy (CEO of Mystery Method).

There are only 6 spaces left at the January 27th, 2007 relationship seminar in Los Angeles, he expects them to be full by Boxing Day.


To see if it's what you're looking for. Then EMAIL me attractionchronicles @ to claim your discount.

Hurry and register, this seminar is also personalized coaching after the seminar with Savoy.


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Present for Christmas? (Video)


posted by Donovan at 6:48 PM

Possibly a better present than Thundercat's suggestions on the subject? :)

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Anonymous 88KK00 said...

I was thinking about this very thing to give to my girlfriend this Christmas. Perfect!!

2:48 PM, December 19, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOL!! Justin Timberlake is the man!!!!!!!!!!!

7:16 PM, December 19, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

about time SNL got better, they've been doing shit since the sandler days

5:38 PM, December 20, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haha! Damn cool, almost didn't recognize JT there for a moment.

9:20 PM, December 20, 2006  
Anonymous walortho said...

This is the perfect medicine for all the wussy guys, That got there girl friends expensive gifts believeing that there going to love you more. Learn wussys get her a D#@#@$k in a box they"ll respect you more for it. Nice? humor with true meaning behind it.

4:18 PM, January 15, 2007  

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How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You

posted by Donovan at 12:40 PM

I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.

To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.

If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.

I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.

Think of flirting like playing.

Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?

What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?

And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.

Flirting is similar.

If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.

On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.

By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".

One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."

Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.

It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.

This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing a different way...

If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION.

When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.

One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.

I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure.

But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you. If you want to see some video clips of me TEACHING Cocky & Funny then go here and check out the examples:

Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialog. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."

Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."

Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."

Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend."

Me: "That's all the more reason." you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).

If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.

When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."

In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.

When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men initiate.

And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.

There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.

If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.

There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.

It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialog that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.

One of the keys to flirting and creating ATTRACTION effectively, is projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it...

And in order to project these things, you need to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about how male/female ATTRACTION works... and then be able to project them throughout your conversation with women.

The program you need to get if you want to learn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "Cocky Comedy" DVD/CD program.

One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys who were "naturals" with women doing... and one of the things that I later learned to do... is what I call "being Cocky & Funny".

You've probably read about the technique in these newsletters I send you.

This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique", and the reason why is because it's FUN... and it WORKS.

It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and it works like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.

If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with a woman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and the smile on her face... then you KNOW how powerful this is.

Well, this program will take your basic skills and SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everything from the foundations of humor and laughter... all the way to specific word-by-word lines for the most common situations you find yourself in with women.

Go check it out, and watch some video clips here:

Oh, and if you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. Get it here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend

David D

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

david d, you do seminars in chicago?

7:15 PM, December 19, 2006  
Blogger Donovan said...

sorry, david d doesn't do seminars anymore (only for a new product)

7:17 PM, December 19, 2006  
Blogger Misal said...

i am from INDIA can u pls tell me from where can i get your book in INDIA.
as i dont have a credit card so i cannot buy it online.
pls tell i really want to buy your books.

1:41 AM, December 23, 2006  

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Happy Birthday


posted by Donovan at 9:59 AM

No... this isn't the blog's annual birthday. It's mine! I'm a year older and... wiser.

A big THANK YOU goes out to all my loyal readers here at The Attraction Chronicles. You definitely make my life brighter, and happier.

You guys are awesome, and this new year in my life is going to be better than the last! A lot of traveling, new hobbies, and new girls.
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Anonymous Anonymous said...

happy birthday.

how old are you dude?

7:13 PM, December 19, 2006  
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7:17 PM, December 19, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Cool dude. May your worst times in the next year be only as bad as your best times in the past!

9:15 PM, December 19, 2006  

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