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The Power Of Negs


posted by Donovan at 9:49 AM

Last night, I was ran a set on HB7.8, really cute girl with a European feel. A fitness freak. We picked her up (her and her friend), and decided to hit up some dance parties. We wanted to have social proof by having somewhat decent girls around.

This girl is a really cool girl, she responded kind of distant to the conversation but after a DHV stories, and photo routine she got a little warmer. Then after one of the stories about making animal noises while making out (a true story that's a complete FREAKSHOW) I negged her, and said "She'd probably love it!" Then like Mystery says, "Throw and Go" so I continued on, just to have continuation in the set.

She got way pissed!

The neg was successful.

This is the gauge of a good neg. Women will look at you like, "WTF" then if you continue like it wasn't a big deal. Success. Don't ever linger for a reaction, that's key to a neg.

I could tell because of the sexual tension in the car. Then 10 minutes later, after more light banter she asked, "Donovan, can I get your phone number?"

This is the first time that's EVER happened to me, so I was taken back, so I said, "Yeah, I'll give it to you a little later".

We had a great time dancing at the parties. Definitely meet up with her again soon.

Just remember guys, that negs must be "throw and go". You can never wait for a response or care what she says in return. In fact, don't even give her a chance to respond. The cocky and funny techniques and negs all work to DHV and lower her perceived value.

Negs work great.

Some example negs:

Man, how do you guys hang with this chick? You can dress her up but you can't take her out huh?!

I think I loved you *pause* before you turned out to be such a freak. (smile)

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Blogger VanWilder said...

What is DHV?

1:08 PM, March 05, 2006  
Blogger Donovan said...

Demostrations of Higher Value.

1:10 PM, March 05, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Cool man, i found this blog yesterday and i think its pretty cool blog, i want to ask you though, because i have found *A LOT* of websites, ebooks, seminars and stuff about this PUA stuff, what do you think is the real deal?

I mean i found, Ross Jeffries, David de Angelo, The Game by Neil Strauss, Derek Vitalio, Carlos Xuma, etc.

What methods, authors do you think works?

Personally i found some success with DyD stuff by David, but haven't tried Ross Jeffries methods.

Thanks! and keep up this gret site.

11:50 AM, March 07, 2006  
Blogger Donovan said...

Personally... I'm switching to Mystery Method, and incorporating different methods into that.

Eg. Ross Jefferies for the comfort stage, David Deangelo for the overall inner game, Juggler for vibing and normality, and Art of Approaching fits perfectly into the Mystery Method for A1.

Pickup 101, I've heard is awesome, and I'm going to be doing a review on this site real soon on that stuff.

Basically you find what suits you best, I think MM because it provides a step-by-step structure. But there are numerous disciplines you can learn from and incorporate so you get the best you can. Just don't overload like I've been doing lately.

1:38 PM, March 07, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks donovan, you're great, it just A LOT of information and with so little time i want to read the best only.

Thanks again!

4:45 PM, March 07, 2006  
Blogger Donovan said...

Are you starting out, or have you been around for awhile? Email me, we can chat.

4:47 PM, March 07, 2006  
Blogger Reddro said...

hey donovan i was just wondering, i have the MM dvd set and the book, but am looking for 1-1's with pua's when i get back from iraq. i was wondering if you had any information regarding those i would be much obliged. have a good day.

9:16 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Donovan said...

i would check out Stephen Nash's 1 on 1 Coaching stuff.

10:04 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Reddro said...

how would i go about doing that?

10:10 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Donovan said...

by clicking the link......

10:12 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Reddro said...

sorry to keep bothering you but does nash use the mystery method?

10:25 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Donovan said...


10:27 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Reddro said...

i appreciate the help. thanks for your time.

10:36 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Reddro said...

i see that you have left a contact link on one of your post i was just wondering if perhaps you and i could chat sometime cuz i m always looking for more information, and you seem to know your stuff pretty well.

10:46 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Donovan said...

That's why I have this blog. My best commentary is on here, and my new blog

10:50 AM, June 12, 2007  
Blogger Reddro said...

k i am going to check this out asap. thanks.

10:55 AM, June 12, 2007  
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12:26 AM, December 15, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im just reading about negs. i dont think they are a good idea. two guys have used these on me, and it really hurt my feelings. i dumped both of them soon after and iu just continue to think of the negative comments from them. if youre trying to seduce a woman, i wouldnt recommend these.

6:30 PM, September 21, 2009  

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