3.04.2006posted by Donovan at 9:49 AM
Last night, I was ran a set on HB7.8, really cute girl with a European feel. A fitness freak. We picked her up (her and her friend), and decided to hit up some dance parties. We wanted to have social proof by having somewhat decent girls around.
This girl is a really cool girl, she responded kind of distant to the conversation but after a DHV stories, and photo routine she got a little warmer. Then after one of the stories about making animal noises while making out (a true story that's a complete FREAKSHOW) I negged her, and said "She'd probably love it!" Then like Mystery says, "Throw and Go" so I continued on, just to have continuation in the set.
She got way pissed!
The neg was successful.
This is the gauge of a good neg. Women will look at you like, "WTF" then if you continue like it wasn't a big deal. Success. Don't ever linger for a reaction, that's key to a neg.
I could tell because of the sexual tension in the car. Then 10 minutes later, after more light banter she asked, "Donovan, can I get your phone number?"
This is the first time that's EVER happened to me, so I was taken back, so I said, "Yeah, I'll give it to you a little later".
We had a great time dancing at the parties. Definitely meet up with her again soon.
Just remember guys, that negs must be "throw and go". You can never wait for a response or care what she says in return. In fact, don't even give her a chance to respond. The cocky and funny techniques and negs all work to DHV and lower her perceived value.
Negs work great.
Some example negs:
Man, how do you guys hang with this chick? You can dress her up but you can't take her out huh?!
I think I loved you *pause* before you turned out to be such a freak. (smile)
Video About Negs Being Bad
posted by Donovan at 9:49 AM Dating Advice for Men