3.01.2006posted by Donovan at 7:36 AM
***AN EMAIL FROM A GUY LOOKING FOR HELP***
Hey Mr. Matthews,
I like your e mails a lot but there is one unusual problem with me. I like a girl in my chemistry class but the problem with her is that she only comes and goes in the class and always has her best friend (she's a girl) with her. They Both are always GLUED together so it makes very difficult for me to approach her and talk to her.
I tried a lot of times to approach her, after some time they both start talking and I just sit staring at them.
There is only one month left for this semester to end and after that I will loose her if I dont do anything but what can I do????????
I have asked many people and tried many things but nothing seems to work. I just dont know what to do??????
--A Frustrated Student
Take heart, Frustrated Student, class is in session!
I, and many other men, have been in similar situations many, many times.
Let me make one thing clear right now that you must understand before you go out trying to meet women:
WOMEN OF BEAUTY ARE NEVER ALONE!!!!!
You heard me right. Pretty girls have a very high social status. They are almost always surrounded by people, be they girlfriends, boyfriends, male "nice guy" friends, brothers, sisters, parents - whatever! They will always be in groups of people.
It is very rare to see beautiful women alone. And when they are alone, they're usually waiting for someone!
The common term I refer to people who like to hang around with beautiful women is: OBSTACLES.
If you imagine you're on a race track, and at the end of the track is this girl you want to meet, all the rocks, hurdles, holes, and booby traps between you and her are OBSTACLES that can ruin your chances of meeting her.
But there is a way to navigate that minefield and avoid all these obstacles! That way is called:
Group theory is a system by which you actually address the girl's friends instead of trying to ignore them. Through group theory, you win over the girls peer group and turn them into YOUR support group.
Here's how it works...
The girl you want to meet is always with her friend, right? And you're worried that you can't approach the girl you like because the friend will interfere in some way.
So what you do is forget about the girl you like, and approach her friend first!
YOU FORGET ABOUT THE GIRL YOU LIKE AND APPROACH HER FRIEND FIRST!
Now, this doesn't mean you're going to try and pick-up the obstacle instead of the girl you really like. It just means you're going to overcome that obstacle before you reach for your prize!
Remember: You must disarm a land mine before you step on it!
You do this by acting disinterested in the girl you're really interested in, and focus on winning over the girl you don't really care for!
Then, once you've won over the obstacle, you ask if you can "borrow" her friend for a minute because you've been neglecting her. Once her friend gives you approval to talk to her alone, guess what? You've just gotten her STAMP of approval!
This means that the girl you like has no reason NOT to talk to you! Then, you pull her off to the side, and work your magic one-on-one.
I talk more about group theory and various other tactics on meeting women in my book The Art Of Approaching: How To Meet Any Woman, Any Time, Anywhere You May Be! In it, I go in-depth on how to meet women and overcome any and all obstacles that may be in your path.
If you want to have the skills to meet beutiful women no matter what, click below now:
Don't wait. If you never get conrtol over this aspect of your life, you will be DOOMED to a life of quiet desperation, seeing opportunity after opportunity with women you like pass you by!
Wishing you success with women,
posted by Donovan at 7:36 AM Dating Advice for Men