12.23.2006posted by Donovan at 8:18 AM
Sometimes we put a lot of burden on ourselves in this community. Everything is our fault with women, and we have the power to change our destiny. All true statements.
I've noticed, for myself, it can be overwhelming at times when it seems you've been doing all you can do.
Don't despair. Change is happening, and you're the one making a better life for yourself. Few people care about your immediate success but you... and your future girlfriends. They want a quality man that they can share those special moments in life with.
Become the man you would want to be with if you were a woman.
So don't get down on yourself for not picking up that 10 at the club last night. Work on it. Play with it. Don't take yourself so seriously, and have FUN.
It's all about experiences.
posted by Donovan at 8:18 AM Dating Advice for Men