10.26.2005posted by Donovan at 12:23 PM
Well after 1 month of solid and exclusive dating this one girl, she has given me the "I like you alot, but I don't want to commit right now. I don't want to decide differently six months down the line and have wasted your time." Yeah.... ok.
I consider the point of sarging, making out, etc, is to have a meaningful relationship with someone, not just hooking up. That is what brings you the most happiness, a great long-term relationship in which you can truly develop yourselves toward each other.
We were doing great, I think the problem was: I started acting to a little clingy. I believe this is an issue that plagues a lot of us men in our relationships. Men are honorable. We like to be honest, and we are usually nice. But women can take this the wrong way and start acting scared. So, take things easy, and non-commital for the first 3 months or so. They are words of wisdom for today.
To my clincher:
Give women enough rope, and they WILL choke you.
Nevertheless, I like them. :)
But I'm back out in the singles world again! Yay, I'll keep posting my field reports.
posted by Donovan at 12:23 PM Dating Advice for Men