Comfort Building Dialogue
3.05.2006
posted by Donovan at 5:12 PMWhen entering the C1 phase of the Mystery Method, it's a good idea to start building more rapport. One such device you can use are comfort building routines.
Any time the chick smiles, you can run this routine. It's best used once you've established that you are cool, and that you are quite attractive to her.
"Hey... you know... you have three smiles."(usually, she'll smile in response to this)"and there's a fourth!"(she'll probably ask something, and then you improvise along the lines of the following)"Yeah, that was your 'I'm flattered' smile, and then you have a... um, not fake... but a polite smile... then there's this really genuine smile when you laugh, and your whole face lights up. Then there's this smug, 'hey this guy fancies me' smile. I've a feeling I might see that a lot."
Guaranteed to make girls fall in love with you. This is the sweetest thing anyone has ever told them. They will remember it and think about it when you are gone.
I think this might have been from Win A Date With Tad Hamilton, either way its great. Say the first bit, and then say you'll tell her the rest later... build some push/pull.
Donovan
posted by Donovan at 5:12 PM Dating Advice for Men
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Agreed. Comfort is very important. Most guys blow themselves out by trying to keep the seduction in phase A the whole time...a girl needs to connect with you, and being sweet after attraction is built is key....
Donovan-
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Exactly. However, that's why you need to become process orientated and not outcome orientated so the material becomes congruent.
The difference is, I want this girl, rather than I want to get better at my material.
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