11.29.2005posted by Donovan at 4:21 PM
Have you ever been walking down the street, minding your own business, when all of a sudden, you see a drop-dead gorgeous woman that you'd cut off your right hand to meet walking along as well?
At that moment, you're probably thinking to yourself: "I want to meet that girl! But how?"
Arguably, meeting a woman on the street, cold, is one of the hardest things to do! People are busy, they feel exposed on the open sidewalk, and their defenses are UP.
You ever have a bum accost you while walking someplace and ask for money?
Well guess what: Trying to meet a woman on the street is about equal to that!
So what's a guy to do? Just give up and let that beautiful woman pass you by?
Of course not.
I have the DEFINITIVE SOLUTION for you boys:
Trying to stop a moving target or group is POINTLESS. Even though they may only be walking to a club to meet someone, and you are good enough to meet, their moving gives them what I like to call a "false time constraint."
In other words, they are in a HURRY to get NOWHERE FAST!
Trust me when I say this...
DO NOT ATTEMPT TO STOP A MOVING TARGET.
Why? Well, I'll get to that in a bit.
See, you KNOW that girls aren't going to walk FAR. Most people you see on the street, if they're walking, they're doing so because they're on their way to someplace CLOSE. Otherwise, they'd be in their car driving. They go from the car to the location they are getting to or back.
This works to your advantage, because if you see a woman walking down the street, you can be sure of one thing:
She's going someplace CLOSE.
So here's what you do: Don't give eye contact. Look BUSY talking with your friends or on your cell phone. Don't give ANY attention to her. Don't get her to notice you.
Then ... follow her!
Now, I'm not suggesting you STALK her! That would be creepy, and I know you're not a creep. You're just doing some recon work. Girls never walk far, you're just going to tag along for a little bit.
Example: let's say you're walking down the street and you see a really hot girl walking towards you with a friend, and you think to yourself, "I want to get that girl!"
So you play it cool and IGNORE them completely as they pass you by.
When you turn to see where they were going, you see them enter one of the nearby restaurants.
So you follow them into the restaurant and notice that they're seated at a booth.
Congratulations, you are now in the type of environment where you can approach them! Moving targets SUCK. Stationary targets are like shooting Fish in a Barrel.
So from this point, you have a lot of options available to you. Usually, you want to allow the girls time to settle in first and have their waiter serve them. Just chill out at the bar or somewhere inconspicuous and wait for the opportune moment to strike.
When that moment comes, use the tactics you've learned from The Art Of Approaching and approach these woman like NORMAL. I'm sure you'll be able to get your target's number in no time. And if you're REALLY good, you may even be invited to join them for lunch! =)
So here are some general rules for approaching women on the street.
RULE: Don't stop a moving target!
RULE: Moving targets don't go far. Follow them.
RULE: Wait for the opportune time to approach.
A girl doesn't WANT to be stopped. Even if they are going NOWHERE, they still THINK they're going somewhere.
So in conclusion: DONT STOP A MOVING TARGET! WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME TO APPROACH AND YOU WILL WIN.
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Wishing you success with women,
posted by Donovan at 4:21 PM Dating Advice for Men