6.07.2006posted by Donovan at 8:42 PM
Alot of you give away your power without noticing. This comes through doing what a woman says without putting her through hoops, or by giving into her requests. It's called hoop theory. Eg. She asks you a question and you answer. Instead, you should ask her a question to qualify her asking you, or not respond to her questions. Does that make sense?
David Deangelo also talks about tests in his e-book Double Your Dating, about dealing with tests from women. David puts out some great techniques for dealing with this stuff. He goes into this stuff for a chapter if I'm not mistaken. Those of with the e-book, make sure you look it up and practice!
The thing you should know about tests, or hoops is that it can make or break the 'set'. (Eg. People you are approaching) It gives or secures your power within the group dynamic. Here is a great video example of Mystery showing how you can get past these tests or hoops and come out victorious. Notice: Mystery does give in to a one or two requests now and again, but overall his frame is in control.
Check out the entire outline of the Mystery Method.
posted by Donovan at 8:42 PM Dating Advice for Men